But and if Ye Suffer for Righteousness’ Sake, Happy Are Ye

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[00:04] it's another opportunity for us to come together in here and learn the word of truth that's given to us by the most high god all honor goes to the [00:11] father through the son whose name is yahweh in him lies the only hope for salvation we know that it is obtained by grace [00:18] through faith and not of works lest anyone should boast and give him freely as a gift to all who obey him [00:23] we understand that if you do not obey him and is made manifest or made obvious that you do not believe in this state you [00:30] should expect no good thing from the most high however anything that you do get whether it be a gift of tongues or a [00:36] gift of prophecy or any supernatural experience that you may have it can and it will be used against you [00:41] in the day of judgment but that said peace to the saints that are in the room to the saints that couldn't make it [00:47] but no peace to the wicked the only thing we say to them is repent that they might live all right [00:55] let's go ahead and go to uh i don't know what we're working with we got [01:01] let's go to isaiah isaiah chapter 29 [01:07] here's isaiah chapter 29. give me verse 9. [01:28] stay yourselves and wonder he said stay yourselves and wonder cry ye out and cry they are drunken but [01:35] not with wine they stagger but not with strong drinks for the lord has poured out upon you the [01:40] spirit of deep sleep and has closed your eyes the prophets and your rulers the seers has he covered [01:46] and the vision of all has become unto you as the words of a book that is sealed which men deliver the one that is learned saying read this i pray thee and [01:53] he say i cannot what are you gonna say he said i can't read it why because it's sealed what else happened [02:02] and the book is delivered to him that is not learned saying read this i pray thee and he says i am not learning [02:07] all right he said good it's like it's like taking the books to somebody and be like here read this and he's like i don't know how to read [02:14] you understand he's saying the vision of all what's the vision of all what does he mean by that perhaps [02:20] he's talking about all the visions in other words all the prophecy that we have in this book is just like [02:28] taking a book to somebody and saying read this and them telling you i cannot because [02:35] it's sealed i can't even open the book or going to somebody and say [02:40] read this and they say i cannot i don't even know how to read so the [02:46] prophecy that's written inside this book is such a way that it would be [02:52] equivalent to take a book to somebody else and tell them to read it and they tell you they [02:58] can't do it in other words the mass majority of people will not understand this book [03:09] hey turn that off turn the tv off turn all [03:15] the games off come up here and sit down hurry up it's important that we [03:22] understand that because we get frustrated right when we try to look into the book and we don't really get it and it's like man why [03:28] everybody else get it and we [03:36] majority of people don't know what they talk about they're running their darn mouth they don't know nothing about this book [03:43] they never open the mouth look you're going to run into every now and again you run to people nah i know the bible i didn't read it [03:49] what the hell are they ready every time i ain't going to tell you oh now i'll tell you i was raised in the [03:55] bible i didn't read it front to back stop that lying soon as soon as you hear [04:01] front and back you'll be like yeah okay yeah okay as soon as they say that you know they lied front to back [04:08] they gonna read the bible front to back you know you're not a bible word [04:19] definitely not in order that's that's your first mistake you try [04:25] to read it thinking you reading in order your butt gonna get to about [04:30] you're gonna get to about second samuel y'all says joe's gonna throw you off [04:36] y'all there but let's say let's say you just ease past that you're gonna get to about second salmon [04:42] you know what i mean second salmon you like okay didn't that then then you're [04:50] running the king kings and crumbs okay then you're running the chronicles then [04:56] you you're all gonna be all thrown off then after that give up [05:02] you know man after you get past that just give it like you already gonna be a little confused once you get in there [05:07] you know so you get into that rude samuel area then you go down there you just just [05:12] give up because if you don't know what you're doing you ain't got nobody to teach you what you're doing you just gotta keep [05:18] going take your time and figure it out put the piece together [05:23] go put them down we'll put them back organ go sit in the room and be quiet [05:30] right all that stuff it takes it takes some time to really understand and pay attention to this stuff but a [05:36] lot of people are not paying attention they just read they're just looking at stuff and then even more than that people are not even [05:42] reading they're not even opening the book and you know they're not reading these people don't read news articles [05:48] you know i mean if you look at a news headline i just showed you some headlines that just be lying headlines just be lying hey like what [05:54] the hell we looked at last week it was a headline what was that headline [06:01] it said something like it said something like uh i forget what [06:06] it was it was something like uh uh you know i mean you know [06:13] yeah it was some i forget what it was but it was [06:18] something like you know i'm saying like uh uh sources say the headline sources say [06:24] that that uh uh you know this person did not have the [06:29] sufficient pass to you know go to this event right whatever it was you know i'm saying in the first first [06:35] paragraph it says although originally reported that that sources said that uh they did not [06:43] have the past we confirmed with the fd fbi that that is not true but it's still the headline you know [06:49] what i mean it's like that's the type of stuff that people if you don't read these articles yo but be thrown for a loop you just [06:55] come to they write these headlines in such a way to get your attention you know what i'm saying [07:01] so that you will talk about the headline whatever and that's what people do i'm guilty of it too sometimes i just read the headlines you keep moving [07:06] i ain't got time to read it or whatever i don't make the time to read it but that's how they get you these people saying well they don't open [07:12] up this book and that's why this book is sealed and that's why this book is given to people [07:18] as if they can't read because people don't understand what's going on in it right it was a brother uh he uh he made [07:25] a post and the only reason i saw it i think uh this other dude [07:30] you know i'm saying that he uh he do some photo he did some photography for me in the past you know i'm saying he commented on it [07:36] but he know we hebrew so i try to you know say pay attention to what he owned you know so i can't i've never been able to kind of get him over here but he got [07:43] his own pastor whatever he more of like a christian hebrew though you know what i'm saying so uh i've been [07:48] trying to get him over here but you know i'm saying he haven't he haven't really you know i'm saying came through or whatever [07:54] but so i try to pay attention to what he's doing and what he liking and what he commented on so he commented on something [07:59] and it was a christian a real christian talking about i just saw a hebrew all right now he was [08:05] like y'all be condemning people to hell for celebrating christmas and it's like but that's ridiculous if [08:12] you gonna do it take it all away don't you know nike's the shoe that comes from a pagan god [08:20] and yawning don't you know that there's an ancient tradition that janine comes from pagan gods and he just made this huge [08:27] list of stuff that probably really comes from pagan gods right yawning [08:33] like to like you know because you're tired yeah yeah probably probably the name of it or something that's probably you know comes from you [08:39] know the ancient god yawn that put people to sleep or something like that so it's probably true though i didn't look into it but it's probably true [08:46] that it comes from a pagan god so i was like this is not fair you know what i'm [08:51] saying it's like what you're doing right now is you're saying hey look at all this other stuff that may be [08:57] borderline wrong therefore let's do wrong you know it's like what are you doing [09:03] you don't say like did you even take the time to say hmm maybe i should reconsider what i'm [09:08] doing you know what i'm saying so it's like it's like it's much like what what you were saying earlier right it's like okay [09:15] i don't feel right telling a person that they shouldn't sin right [09:21] no one shall feel right telling the person that they shouldn't see it therefore everybody should be allowed to [09:27] do whatever they want to do it's like no that's not how this works there's an order [09:32] and if you don't feel right then deal with why you don't feel right don't get to talk about everybody else [09:38] you know what i'm saying other than that let's go with what's right so let's talk about christmas and easter and how that's different from [09:45] yawning when people yawn are they saying i'm yawning to the most high god did they say most high god made me yawn [09:51] just now did i say i yawn in honor of god i yawned to celebrate god hey you all right [09:59] no when i'm young i'm tired hey i didn't do a god [10:05] when i have my nikes on am i saying whenever i put on nikes that represents me being saved by the most high god [10:12] i wear nikes in celebration of the most i got i've never heard anybody say that [10:18] so then i don't care where yawning come from and i don't care where nikes come from that's a shoe and that's an action to me [10:26] right is christmas the same thing [10:31] because where did christmas come from if you have asked a christian a stupid christian jesus birthday is that the truth no [10:39] that's a problem right now i've turned a pagan tradition into a lie [10:46] to support god that's a problem you know what they call that in the bible [10:52] vain tradition [10:58] easter bunnies and all this stuff in celebration of god [11:06] that's a problem it's about his resurrection so that's why i'm looking for eggs in my [11:12] backyard it makes a whole lot of sense right [11:18] that is a lie and that's a problem the problem is not pagan tradition [11:26] that's been repurposed i don't care nothing about that you do whatever you want to do the problem is you've now taken a pagan [11:32] tradition a pagan religious service and it's still [11:37] religious for you and you just changed the religion and now you're dealing with something [11:43] sacred where the most high god say what is it what does it call for all of us what does he want us to do [11:50] and what else are we supposed to be what [11:55] what does holy mean so how in the world are we setting him apart if we're taking [12:01] a pagan tradition mixing him up and then say ah it's because of you [12:07] you're not making a difference you're not setting anything apart right it's confusing and that's what he [12:15] tries to stay away from so i'm looking at this post and i'll try [12:21] to break that down in my response to it then he comes back and he's like yeah yeah bro but you're not understanding [12:27] what i'm saying is and you go back to the nikes and all that i'm like my man look you gotta listen to what i'm [12:33] telling you right now stop talking to me about nikes unless you're wearing nikes [12:40] in service of god because if you start saying that then i agree with you take them darn nikes off right i agree [12:47] with you if you if you're under the assumption that by wearing nikes you are obeying god you're doing what [12:53] god wants you to do you're giving glory to god like anything by wearing those nike if that's okay [12:59] then we're we're in agreement take them off get your butt out here that's a lie i think it's from pagan is that nothing [13:05] like you can't mix that with god you're wearing your knife because you want to wear your nike who cares you're like yeah but it's a heart issue [13:14] he's like man if a person does something and they own it i mean and and they they don't have any ill [13:21] intentions with it and they doing it i was like oh man that's a couple key words you just said there brother [13:26] you said intentions in heart so i was like this is the problem right [13:32] i see the point that you're making overall you're saying i'm wearing my nike's i don't know nothing about these being [13:38] from pagan stuff so why does it matter same thing with christmas i'm celebrating christmas [13:45] i don't know nothing about this being taken or maybe i do but i ain't doing maybe i do know my nikes from pagan stuff [13:50] but i ain't wearing nike because they pagan and i ain't celebrating christmas because they pay it i'm celebrating them because of [13:56] jesus christ it's like okay to any normal person make a lot of sense [14:02] right you don't mean nothing buy it matter of fact you're so mature you can do it anyway even though it's [14:07] not you know even though it's not pure you could do it anyway because you're so mature and you know exactly why you're doing it [14:13] but you know what that relies on you know if you're leaning on your own understanding [14:19] [Music] and that's a problem right because the book what does the book tell us about [14:25] intentions i mean how many ways are right to a man [14:32] yeah a lot of god books every way you know about is that to a man [14:40] every way is right do you understand what that means [14:46] that means that i can justify literally every action that i do do we not see [14:52] that right now when people say they live with no what what are they doing for you to live with [14:58] no regrets what does that mean that you've done to yourself you've justified everything that you've [15:04] done in your life can that same person come to you and say they've never made a mistake no [15:10] so that means they don't regret the mistake if you don't regret a mistake if you acknowledge i made a mistake [15:17] but i have no regrets you know what you've done you've justified it in other words [15:23] you've forgiven yourself you wipe your slate clean that's what god that [15:29] when when god when god forgives us you know what he's doing for us he's justifying us he's making us [15:35] justice he's making us justify righteous right so if you justify yourself [15:41] right what room is there for god to do it took it away [15:52] exactly we look at these things and people don't know what they're doing [15:58] they're looking like every way to a man is right that means that i'm making up the rules as i go [16:04] if i do this i mean i did it because that's what i knew at the time you know [16:10] what and i don't regret doing that because if i didn't do that i would have never gone gotten where i got now that's how people think right [16:17] if i would have never i mean sure it was a rough time and i made some mistakes but if i didn't go through that [16:22] i would have never learned the lesson that i learned right here right for them that make a whole lot of [16:28] sense right all that is indicative of a person saying [16:34] every way was right but you know what the next part of that verse is every way to a man every way that he [16:40] every way is right next thing you say but god weighs the heart [16:54] [Music] same same concept though right it's just like you you think you doing something [16:59] and the most hot guys don't really show you what's happening right it's like yeah i'm saying you had you had the king of assyria [17:05] with his mind he was attacking that he is attacking the israelite because he the big the head honcho was like i was like yeah [17:11] but you're just really my tool to punish the israelites right so it's like you think you're doing something but the all the time [17:17] it's working out for god's plan all right but this is saying basically god is [17:22] weighing the heart so i'm choosing something and in my mind i've made what whatever my choice was [17:28] i've made it okay i made it right i made i'm living with it i'm okay with it i've forgiven myself i've [17:33] justified myself but the most i got is digging deep and he's looking at the heart so two things [17:38] he said to me he mentioned a person's intentions and a person's heart being in the right place [17:45] right so where would i go next jeremiah 17. and what would that say t [17:51] the heart is deceitful what a deceitful me [17:57] okay so he said the heart be lying above all things and what else no man he said no man what so [18:03] why are you talking to me if the books say who can know a heart [18:10] why are you talking to me about a person's heart [18:17] you know what that tells me you've never read this book not for understanding at least maybe you [18:22] read this verse right but you've never sat down and tried to understand this book it didn't capture it because you [18:28] wouldn't be talking to me about intention because if you talk to me about attention you will know that every way everybody thinks their [18:33] intentions is good that's what they're saying when they say every way is right in a man's eye everybody thinks their intentions are [18:39] good god weighs the heart okay so if god is way in the heart [18:45] and you telling me the uh you know that my heart was in the right place you know what that mean your heart lied [18:52] to you because the heart deceitful of all things [18:58] i don't know who can know it what do you say after that see you got it yeah it's jeremiah chapter 17 verse what [19:04] nine eight nine it's jeremiah 17 verse [19:12] the heart is deceitful above all things and desperately wicked and what oh whoa and that that you know what [19:20] you what does it mean to be desperate i just can't i just [19:29] desperately i was like ah i just gotta be wicked the heart y'all these people [19:36] don't know what they are you're playing with they be saying these things because it sounds good because nobody taught them [19:41] the truth for the word so it sounds good to be like all my intentions cause you feel like that excuses you [19:48] my intentions was my heart was in the right place well you know don't talk to me soon as you can talk to me about your [19:53] heart about your own work only time only time i want to hear about heart [19:58] is if you tell me what the book said because i know that you don't know your [20:03] heart you ain't you definitely don't know nobody else's [20:09] that's books if i took it any other way i'd be lying or i didn't believe the book if i [20:15] believe a book i know you have no idea what your heart is doing and i know that your heart gonna make [20:21] you feel like you i so as soon as you get telling me my heart was in the right place i'm like [20:26] yeah you a sinner you know you definitely a sinner [20:32] a righteous man how he gonna judge his heart [20:38] but i mean practically you know i'm saying he using the word how's he gonna judge his heart righteous words that's it [20:45] because y'all should have told us something he said from the heart the wicked man produces wickedness [20:58] man that's the treasures right treasure is like what i'm storing what i keep right [21:04] so from the heart of man is where all the stuff our story is so if then i then produce wickedness [21:12] that means i'm storing what so i mean if i have a tree [21:17] and fruit comes off of it and it happens to be an apple what kind of tree is that [21:23] am i going to get an orange from an apple tree am i going to get a poison berry from apple tree [21:31] fresh water can't produce if i got a fresh water spring is salt water gonna come [21:37] out of it what happened if i got a fresh water spring [21:43] and the ocean running at the same time what kind of water i got talk about but i got a fresh water [21:50] spring though i turned into a water if i got an ocean ain't it both [21:57] so you mean tell me i got this cup of water filter it's good water you have some of my water yet my filter [22:04] water you know i got a good filter on there you drink that body bad water it's like aquafina ain't got nothing on my darn [22:10] water you tend to drink something it's filtered good everything out of it no fluoride you know why you guys got fluoride in it [22:16] make you docile you know what i'm talking about no fluoride in this water right so they say i don't know i don't know what i'm talking about i [22:23] just know what they told me and i bought it yeah i'm done about so i drink it right ain't gonna water it [22:30] every now and again i like to gargle salt water you know what i'm about if i take salt and pour it in my water [22:37] right but just a little bit of salt this is fresh pure filtered water if i pour a little bit of salt in this [22:44] water what is it even i only it's mostly just this fresh [22:49] water though i just poured a little bit of salt how much what is it [22:55] y'all keep playing with god it's like this stuff makes sense to us in every other situation most like god trying to tell you no sin [23:02] as soon as you have i mean just a little bit of sin guess what it is you're a sinner yeah i'm saying like [23:07] what are you talking about no sin you're not a sinner a little bit [23:13] of sin you're a sinner a lot of seniors in it medium-sized scene you're a sinner you know about like [23:20] it's not right it's not what i'm saying is the stuff that we'd be discussing is not foreign now this is not like oh [23:26] i've never heard anything like that no these are regular everyday concepts yeah [23:32] like at work we have a policy and procedures everybody understands that these are the things that binds us [23:38] and these are the things that we have to operate by to have a well-oiled machine [23:43] for everybody to flourish in the operation anybody that breaks these rules they can be subject to certain [23:49] punishments you know i'm saying include determination depending on the severity of whatever it is so everybody has common sense when it [23:57] comes to that stuff but when it comes to governing yourself according to the book then it's like anything goes but they don't use that [24:03] logic and anything else in their life no it's just plain stuff right and that's and that's the problem [24:09] that we get because people are not educated in this way [24:14] you can make that you could try to make the case in their head that christmas easter nike shoes yawning [24:22] all these different things are the same and if y'all don't think nike shoes and yawning are an issue [24:29] then you shouldn't think christmas and easter is an issue and therefore everyone should be able to do whatever [24:36] they want to do right and i look at that poll and i'm like bro [24:41] you have to know that you don't know the heart and you don't know the intention but [24:46] let's just say the heart is telling the person that they're good and that their intentions [24:52] are good in their own mind that person then is creating a result of sin and creating [24:59] the result of a lie and spreading a lie and therefore [25:05] the fruit that's coming from that person is indicative that that person is actually wicked does it matter [25:13] how we feel about it how you feel about it it comes down to the word when we read in colossians does it or [25:19] does it not tell us stay away from vain traditions [25:25] that's all we have to do so you have to then make the choice my brother are you gonna listen to what the books [25:32] say i was like you know what this would be a much safer position for you you know what i'm saying i was like [25:37] this let me tell you how you could phrase what the point that you're trying to make this would be a much safer hey guys i [25:44] also learned that christmas and easter have pagan roots right [25:52] if i were you guys i wouldn't mess with it there's plenty of holidays in the bible [25:59] that god actually put together that we can read about that have rich history and we can celebrate them that also goes [26:07] for sunday worship right like how would that not to me [26:13] i just like being safe that's a safer position i'm not telling you you're going to hell [26:18] i'm not telling you i don't i'm staying out of it i'm just going to tell you what is there and what the right thing is to [26:25] do right if you're a christian you don't feel right like yeah but maybe it's [26:30] wrong maybe it's not okay you don't have to make that decision if you're not comfortable right but you do know for a fact that it [26:38] is a pain like you know that like you as a christian you know that it comes from paganism so if you just had two things in front [26:44] let's not let's say either one was right right but you just not sure right you had these two things in front of you [26:51] you mean to tell you you're gonna prefer the one from paganism when you know for sure you know for sure [26:59] that it's right right to not celebrate a pagan rooted day there's no question about [27:06] that nobody's gonna be like well maybe that's wrong right to not celebrate christmas you know for sure you're in the good [27:12] all other things being equal right your whole life you live righteously right and then this person except for [27:20] christmas lives righteously but you celebrate christmas this person except for christmas lives i mean uh doesn't celebrate christmas and [27:27] live righteously everywhere else in their life right these two right [27:32] this one the christmas part maybe i don't know jerry's still out who knows not a big [27:39] deal maybe it is this one which one you going to [27:45] just go to safe route tell people listen clear yourself in the dirt hey listen [27:51] everything is rooted in paganism i would suggest not messing with it just [27:56] for conscience sake if you maybe you won't go to hell maybe you would you know but just for conscience say [28:01] i would say suggest not messing with it it's an easier position to take so i told like that's a better position to [28:08] take because now you're putting yourself in the position of a teacher and you making a bold claim you make it [28:14] your claim is that it don't matter i was like but you don't know that [28:19] and in our discussions you're going back and forth with me you definitely ain't prove what you're talking about [28:25] you ain't opened up no book it told me hi because it says this like you ain't even pointed to nothing in the book [28:31] they never did yeah that's crazy too well i'll give you a book you ain't even came back and point to nothing yeah i'm [28:37] saying that makes sense in the book so you know what it's a better position [28:43] to shut your darn mouth and go over what the book say guess how many people don't do that [28:48] though that's too easy that's too boring you know i'm saying you can't get [28:53] you know the problem is who can get glory from doing that from pointing to the book who can get [29:00] glory what it is is uh isaiah chapter 29 [29:06] where we live probably about verse 12. [29:12] and the book is delivered to him that is not learned saying read this i pray thee and he says i am not learned wherefore the lord said for as much as [29:18] this people draw near me with their mouth they draw near to me with a mouth a good christian self and they say [29:24] oh i'm celebrating christmas and easter and i love god and he loves me and you know what [29:30] god walks with me every day and i thank god because he woke me up of a type of stupid stuff like that [29:35] i thank god that he woke me up this morning [29:43] dp i mean these people just after it it feel good though does that sound good [29:48] it's like look you probably sitting back here right now like what in the world is wrong with thanking god cause he woke you up this morning [29:55] ain't that even to be honest right it's like it's like what why can't i thank god [30:00] for waking god wait it's not that you came it's not your case what sounds good like if you die today like 30 years of sin [30:08] whatever you died with you was 90 or 90 years of sin you know what i'm saying if you keep [30:14] that attitude about your whole life god woke me up this morning it's like your rap sheet is like 90 years long now you know you gotta ask [30:21] yourself why is waking up a blessing yeah murderers woke up today you know [30:27] what i'm saying probably like the worst people in prison that you know we pray for the wrong thing we thank god [30:33] for the wrong things they woke up too i mean right okay like okay i'm up right [30:38] why is this though why am i up all right why is this good for me why is it up that i why is it great that i woke up this [30:44] morning so i can get up and sin some more is it great because i love my family i'm giving god glory for this stuff [30:51] think about it my life is full of sin and i'm giving god glory because he gave me another shot at it [30:57] yeah yeah like i was i'm about to say like i woke up thank god i'll go this morning [31:02] i could be dead for what i'm doing i could go to hell you know i'm saying so now i acknowledge that i could have what the [31:10] hell if i died but you still waking up to it with you get back to it you can't change like [31:17] it's like a trap bro like you wake up and it's like oh thank god he woke me up this morning because what i did last night you know i [31:22] was saying it's like you don't have no desire to change to change what you're doing it's like that's a spitting god's face you know if [31:28] you take that route like if you're acknowledging in your head that they gotta gave me another chance and [31:34] you're not doing nothing with it that's pretty bad you know as opposed to somebody that just literally don't know what they're doing [31:41] and then when they when they get when they come across that knowledge like oh i ain't even know that then that person can at least consider [31:46] but somebody that i already know it just refuses like to you know pay attention to the signs that's pretty bad [31:53] so you have a proper way to do it you wake up he said man i gotta get my life right [32:00] thank you god for giving me another shot right that would be appropriate right [32:06] because your intention right we already talked about attention but nevertheless your intention is that i have another chance [32:14] to correct what i've been doing my life here's the problem you spend another day [32:21] and you don't correct it and you wake up the next one is like okay thank you for another chance guess what you repeat that again [32:28] spitting in god's face so what you think is oh i'm doing the right thing by sending up a prayer every [32:34] morning and doing all this but i haven't changed my behavior that is going to work against you in the [32:40] end so you knew what you should have been doing you knew [32:46] you knew you were supposed to thank me but you ain't never think oh that day you never thought to open up the book huh you never thought to actually do [32:52] what i said you just you were just drawing near to me with your mouth just like it was just said this people draw read it again watch [32:59] this for a while such as this people draw near me with their mouth and with their lips [33:04] they honor me but i've removed their heart far from me their heart we got the heart again remember the heart is what [33:11] above what all things it is what [33:16] who can know so my heart is telling me man i love god let me send up a prayer [33:23] this morning and thank you thank you for waking me up god thank me for giving me just another [33:29] chance at this earth i know i ain't perfect god but you've been right here with me this whole time [33:35] guess what's telling me to say that my heart my heart is telling me we good [33:42] right but that thing is desperately wicked who can know it the most high god [33:48] is saying you're removing your heart far from me so it's two things going on and we don't [33:53] even realize it we think in our minds we're giving honor to god god is pleased with what we're doing [33:59] right now and that's our heart lying to us right but we don't even know our heart well enough because we can't [34:06] we can't discern our heart the only way we can discern our heart is through our behaviors in in shedding light through the word so [34:12] it's like a it's like it's like it's like a doctor's checkup doctor check out he look in your eyes [34:18] you look in your ear you tell you hold out your tongue you put that that darn uh was it the popsicle stick [34:23] on your darn tongue look down look at your tonsils and through all that he's looking inside of your body for [34:30] signs right you see if he see a couple bumps on your tonsils back there [34:36] man he might got tonsillitis you know what i'm saying like it might be something wrong he gets the looking in your ear and you [34:42] see an infection in there like oh man you know what you might have this that he might have an ear infection [34:48] right he's looking at your eyes like oh man you know what i'm saying i see you i'm saying something coming here [34:55] right he's looking at the signs of your body you said you've been coughing all week huh it's a bad guy trying to call for me [35:02] right now oh yeah that sounds like strep right there's something going on inside of you [35:08] that we don't recognize we don't know right i mean i just know i don't feel good but you know i don't know exactly [35:13] what's going on he can diagnose it how can he diagnose it because he had years and years of studying books that [35:20] told him how to diagnose various things well this is the same thing there's stuff going on inside of us [35:27] that we may think is one thing we may think you know how many people go to the doctor and they thought they were perfectly fine [35:33] they ain't nothing wrong with me is that another no i mean i got a little pain but that always have a [35:38] little pain in me i'm saying my child that always happened though but you know we realized that that that's a sign that you got a heart [35:44] attack coming right let me check your heart they running through that thing the cat scans that another [35:50] my home girl you know what i'm saying she gotta wear you know what i'm saying she gotta wear like a little pacemaker she didn't think nothing was [35:58] going on she went to the doctor you know check her out got kobe going on [36:03] you gotta put this thing on right that's how that's how it works [36:09] because we be thinking ain't nothing going on the doctors know no different no different [36:15] no there is stuff going on our heart telling us one thing we think is cool we think it's the most i got trying to tell [36:20] you low if you got these symptoms if you cuss it lime cheese all these if these are your [36:27] symptoms let me tell you something if you getting darn drunk intoxicated [36:32] right you find yourself always darn mad and envying people [36:38] right if these are your symptoms guess what there's something going on [36:44] with your heart grab ah grab a mark chapter seven give [36:49] me verse uh 20. oh 20 or 25 i think mark chapter 7 [36:55] verse 20. what's the book say it's 20. [37:06] where's your mom downstairs yeah let my baby up here and fend for herself [37:12] and he said that which comes out of the man look here's mark chapter 7 verse 20. he said that which comes what out of the [37:18] man that defiles the man those are symptoms what comes out are symptoms right [37:24] there's something inside of you some infection inside of you and then it produces stuff to come out [37:30] if your cut is infected what comes out um [37:39] same thing gang green right when your leg becomes infected [37:45] right it gained greens right gout [37:51] you know what i'm saying your foot get all swollen and then pain you don't say like these like all these [37:58] different things it like it produces something externally there's something going on in and your body pushes stuff out to let [38:04] you know what's happening right so this is what y'all shoot was saying he's like don't worry about what go [38:09] into the body he's like man it's the stuff that comes out of the body that's what you should be concerned with [38:15] he said from inside what he's gonna say from the heart of a man [38:20] why we keep talking about heart from within out of the heart of man because the heart is lying to you right [38:26] the heart is telling you we good you trying your best [38:31] you are doing the best you can you're a good person nobody's perfect don't let nobody [38:38] make you feel this this is that that's what your heart is telling you the whole time it's trying to build up your confidence or whatever [38:44] sometimes just doing the opposite it's tearing you down when you should be up right whatever your heart is it's just lying to you if it's true that you actually [38:51] alright your heart gonna be like oh you overly righteous and you're being self-righteous and you know you need to take it that [38:56] serious and it's that another right and if you just down and out it's gonna be like you know what you like man you know what i'm saying nobody perfect don't [39:02] nobody know what the truth is anyway it's your truth you gotta live your truth [39:08] your heart just tell me whatever it needs to tell you right meanwhile this is what's coming out of it [39:13] from within out of the heart of men perceive evil thoughts adulteries adulteries what fornication fornication [39:21] murders murders deaths deaths covetousness weakness wickedness deceit [39:35] foolishness all these evil things come from within and the father all these things come from within and [39:40] they do what defile the man they devour man you can't buy good over around here right they say all these things come from [39:47] within and they defile a man he's telling you when you see this stuff [39:54] this is indicative that your insides are unclean forget what you put in your mouth and in [39:59] your body this is indicative that your insides are unclean and that's what we need to look [40:08] for don't talk to me about how your heart feel and what your intentions are talk to me at what about what your [40:14] behavior is because if your behavior is lining up with the book then you can be sure you can walk up to [40:20] god with confidence if you just tell me well i mean my heart tells me that [40:26] you know my heart was in the right place when i did this i feel pretty good about what i was doing oh [40:32] that's different now you know i'm saying i don't tell me darn nothing i can't do nothing with that [40:37] you say you feel that's how you feel y'all got to understand what are emotions [40:47] not spirits it's all it is just spirits and when i say spirits not all spirits [40:52] are necessarily like flat out bad you know what i'm saying spirits is just energy right so it's just like you [41:00] got a man that controls uh [41:10] yeah yeah you take you take control and clean out your the spirits of your house you know i'm saying cleaning all them spirits you know i'm [41:16] saying they send them out and you know you leave that place empty and they're gonna come back and you know invite their friends you know what i'm [41:22] saying but that's what it is spirits it's emotions you know what i'm saying so it's like no are emotions evil in themselves no no not necessarily right [41:29] however if you let your emotions control you right then now you're in a bad place [41:36] because you letting spirits control you right what we're trying to do is we're trying to break all this stuff down [41:43] we trying to make sure that spirits got to submit to the will of the most high god [41:49] right that's the only way this stuff works we have to keep control these people [41:55] don't understand this stuff so when we when we read and we read isaiah 29 it tells us [42:02] that um and let's go back to isaiah 29 right if we when we read isaiah chapter [42:07] 29 it tells us that the heart you know i'm saying like [42:12] with a mouth they'd be young trying to get close if he praised me every morning going to church and all this other stuff [42:18] but the heart is far from me kind of like uh [42:23] what happened to uh when it was given sacrifices and stuff like that but they [42:28] still was not uh it wasn't obeying god i think uh i think that would happen but it's like [42:35] uh they were trying to get sacrificed the guy he asked him like what did i require that's right yeah [42:41] it's the exact same thing it's like so the equivalent to that now would be us [42:46] repenting every day right asking god for forgiveness that would be equivalent to a sacrifice all right [42:52] because that was our the sacrifice was a way to get for be forgiven right now we just ask for forgiveness so [42:59] it's equivalent like you know i'm saying you go you take a sacrifice and you still keep the same behavior [43:04] right almost like god looking at you like okay you playing with me so it got to the point here like man i only want no sacrifice because it don't mean [43:10] nothing so how do you think he feel when you know somebody asking for forgiveness every day [43:15] all right he let me don't mean nothing to me [43:22] keep reading what we got therefore behold i will proceed to do a marvelous work [43:28] amongst this people even a marvelous work and a wonder for the wisdom of their wise men shall perish [43:33] and the understanding of their proven men shall be hid woe to them that seek deep to hide their counsel from the lord [43:38] now we miss someone go back wherefore the lord says for as much of this people draw near me with their [43:44] mouth and what their lips do honor me but they remove their heart far from me and their fear towards me is taught by [43:50] the precept of men and that's why you got all these traditions right that's why you got people that [43:57] worship on sunday don't come from god that's why you got people that refuse to call him anything other than jesus you come to him be like [44:03] now his actual name was yahweh well instead of just saying oh that's interesting that's his actual name [44:10] i should probably call a man by his actual name like yeah verify it do whatever you gotta do look it up but [44:16] once you find out it's true i should call it these people know his name is yahshua and they'd be like well you know [44:21] what you always been jesus to me what type of stuff is that then they [44:27] argue with it so you trying to say that if i call them jesus that god ain't hearing me [44:33] i didn't say that i don't that's not what i said i don't know right maybe he is maybe ain't no my [44:38] business i'll tell you what his name is yoshua you know like what the why is it why is [44:44] there any other conversation like what are we talking about and like they go and they the first [44:50] instinct is to defend what they're doing [44:56] you have to understand that that's pride that's not giving god glory if you are you always looking to defend [45:02] your church or defend your denomination to defend your tradition that is you [45:08] because the fear of god was taught to you by the tradition of men you think [45:15] you're showing reverence to god or you're showing honor to god by doing by celebrating christmas where [45:20] spent on sunday and calling them jesus because that's your tradition [45:26] and that's how you believe that that's how i work that's not how i work you have to get into the book and split [45:32] it like you have to understand it this book which was written this portion of the book was written [45:39] thousands not just two thousand thousands of years ago right and it's describing what you're [45:46] doing today that ought to make you feel like whoa [45:51] you know again like that ought to make you a little nervous this guy it's in here telling you traditions of [45:56] men the fear guys talk about tradition of men and you still in 2021 with full [46:01] knowledge that christmas is pagan easter is pagan sunday worship is peggy all this to full knowledge [46:08] you still do it and defend it that ought to make you feel a certain type of way [46:13] that's why i be telling people people like me how you know you say everybody else interpretation of the bible is wrong how [46:19] do you know that you preaching writing like first of all i didn't say everybody else i'm just saying i ain't met nobody hell [46:24] damn i ain't came across look i'm not saying everybody i'm just saying i haven't come across a youtube [46:30] channel christians make it too easy like almost everything you need it's like you're not even trying it yeah that's [46:35] right yeah i ain't talking about everybody i'm talking about you and your church like that thing's like [46:40] you not even trying like you know you know how easy it is to shoot some of your stuff up [46:45] there's no way like at least make it difficult on a random sunday i can go to a church [46:51] and just pick up pick apart everything they say does that mean every sunday you out here [46:56] tell them big lies you ain't taking you know like you know i said this sunday let me just keep it real [47:02] but you can't because once you tell a lie you can't connect you know i'm saying like you ain't gonna do too much connecting the lie to the [47:08] truth you know what i'm saying so you have to uphold the lie each week [47:13] too easy too easy as soon as i sit down i'll be like oh there you go [47:21] you know it's a clever lie too like man no i see why you know i see where you're going with it but [47:26] you have to understand this only happened because of this and this that another you gotta do this web and that's where people you lose people [47:32] because people usually only think you know one or two layers you know so you get to give them the five six layers they're gonna be like whoa you know [47:39] they're like uh okay so what am i supposed to do oh yeah well i'll tell you what just this is what [47:44] you're supposed to do but my pastors say all right [47:51] or even word they be like yeah that's right yeah that's right you never hear from again [47:56] like all right you said it though you don't say you said it yeah y'all say you said it all right [48:03] let's pick up what we left off last week this is uh first peter chapter three first one [48:14] you good i'm just trying to make sure you are yeah you good you got anything you need [48:24] it's first peter chapter three verse one [48:32] back in i used to go to you try to pull out a phone back there and try to look on the bible put the phones away put them phones away [48:40] you know what i'm saying i'm better than my old pastor you know what i'm doing about you know they put their phones away [48:47] like now but it's convenient you know pull it up in three seconds i don't know where the book is i gotta [48:52] find it let's go to the table content goodnight gracias likewise you wives [48:59] be in subjection to your own husbands uh-huh if any obey not the word he said be in subjection to husbands [49:05] that if any old no no he said be in subjection to all husbands be in subjection to your own husbands [49:11] they get you right there get that on me talking my darn wife [49:24] to hold it up too he said your own husband i can talk to you but sit your butt down [49:30] you see she sitting subjection you know what i'm talking about [49:37] i think go somebody else get to daniel tell her tell her stand up just tell her you tell her right now [49:42] stand up you see your butt still sitting don't you yeah that's right you know what i'm about to let that thing work [49:49] you know what i'm saying subjection that's what they say though is be a subjection to your own your own wife a lot of time men men [49:56] one thing i will give women and i ain't giving them nothing i say it like that you know halfway jokingly right but [50:02] one thing that is true and there's many things that are true but one thing that is true [50:07] is men have mishandled the responsibility that the most high god has given you [50:14] right which then created a lot of distrust right it's created a lot of distrust [50:23] and it put in a position where women have now tried to over correct right so now we have these like feminist [50:28] movements and you know men hate women and all this different stuff that's going on [50:34] right when in actuality it just it's just that you know there may be a little bit of that right [50:39] or some of that but in actuality men have just just mishandled the the [50:45] responsibility in general right not all men but in general which has created this atmosphere of [50:51] mistrust and distrust so that's what that's what this is about [50:56] it's kind of letting you know that no that's not the position of just any man that just boss around any moment [51:02] right and that any man should have control over any woman no no no no no you are in subjection to [51:09] your own husband right that's the lead that you follow whatever that lead may be all right keep [51:16] going don't mean don't be nothing about he didn't say nothing about the woman should wash the dishes or clean the kitchen and this [51:22] that another that's how we have it worked out you know everything got nothing to do with [51:28] everybody else work out there perhaps a man want to leave his house by watching the edition doing all the [51:33] stuff around the house and working in the house and his wife go work right [51:40] like it don't matter it's however a man want to set up his house that hides a man set up his house the [51:47] key is that the wife should be in subjection to that leadership right that's the only key you know i'm saying it ain't got to [51:53] be traditional the way you know what i'm saying these people tell us it should be you'll never see anything in the bible like that holy god [51:59] grab a grab uh proverbs chapter 31 real quick a lot of people a lot of people don't [52:04] even know what they're dealing with when they come to this book they come to this book and they come to a darn blonde they don't know what [52:10] they're looking at they get to put in all this stuff they've been putting all type stuff see yeah but that's the bible to say women got to do [52:17] that i was like the bible say women got to do what i mean women got to be in the house and they'll say the bible says that way [52:23] you know then like show it to me i didn't want to see one place in the bible where the bible said it's got to happen our book said hey look he got a [52:29] free ride nothing about a woman got to stay here [52:34] and do this and do that now you got to shut your mouth ain't no don't put that lie on the book put that line on these white folks [52:41] the white folks that tried to use the book to justify what they did don't put that stuff on us if proverbs [52:49] chapter 31 verse one watch the book say the words of king led me well [52:54] that his mother taught him his who who taught him i thought women ain't supposed to teach [53:00] men there were women prophets yeah they're [53:07] women prophets and what else they're women judges a mom can teach her [53:13] child son we don't know when he learned this we don't know what age he was right keep [53:19] going what my son and what the son of my womb and what the son of my vows [53:25] give not your strength unto women nor are thy ways to that which destroys kings so you know what he just said you know [53:31] what she said just said don't be chasing anything and don't submit to the woman he said [53:38] don't give your strength to the woman in other words you you maintain your leadership [53:44] right let's see keep going oh they ain't gonna like this day yo there hey we'll like this watch this [53:49] though it is not for kings of the mule it is not for kings to drink wine nor for princess strong drink [53:55] thus they drink and forget the law and pervert the judgment of any of the afflicted he said if you a king guess what you [54:01] keep yourself darn sober they ain't gonna like this daniel keep going there's a woman teaching them [54:06] that watch this give strong drinking to him that is ready to perish and whine to those that be of heavy hearts [54:12] let them drink and forget you're going through stuff with all these people going through stuff oh that's why they strung out on [54:18] drugs y'all remember uh y'all might not be familiar with them you remember to do this to travel around the world you know [54:24] what's his name the one that traveled around the world he died he committed suicide a couple years ago but he used to travel around the world [54:30] and eat all the stuff oh yeah that was our food it's one of them [54:40] [Music] [54:46] [Music] some john bourdain or something like that josh bourdain something like that [54:53] right he he you know to everybody i remember hearing about him everybody's like oh [54:58] man he got it all you get to travel the world and do this and then because he traveled where i eat all types of disgusting stuff [55:04] people look at that stuff and be like man that's great man what a life right come out man on drugs you know [55:09] what they said about him they said that he was on drugs and then he went to rehab or whatever [55:15] stop being on drugs and traveling the world and doing all that wow stuff it gave him a similar feeling that the [55:22] drugs gave right that rush because you know that's what dog drugs is it unlike that what's it called [55:30] what's the thing endorphin like the endorphin no dopamine yeah i'm saying dopamine endorphins too though [55:35] i think endorphin which is endorphins or something like that whatever that chemical is right but i think it's dopamine [55:40] right and that they make you feel a certain way and after the drugs you know most drugs they unlock that you know what i'm [55:46] saying so you just feeling like a bliss and wonderful and this that nothing but and you know all that stuff happens also [55:53] when you're excited or you're happy about something so he had to keep exciting himself and putting himself in these situations [55:59] that unlocked that that thing naturally though it was a natural way of doing it turns out he committed suicide [56:06] right because the reality is right whether i'm dealing with this with [56:12] drugs and medication or whether i'm dealing with this with these these wild situations there's something [56:19] going on inside of me that hasn't been dealt with right i'm gonna cover it up with [56:25] shooting up heroin sniffing coat smoking weed whatever i do right or i'm gonna cover it up with [56:33] life experiences so you see these people that's like oh i just i just have to travel i just have to see [56:38] things so every day that's been blow all their money they save up fifty thousand dollars an arm blow it on [56:45] a trip here save a fifteen thousand dollar and then blow it on the trip here and this [56:52] i'm not talking about people who just got it these are people that they last dime and people have got to go on a [56:58] vacation every year nothing and let's be clear nothing wrong with traveling nothing wrong with going on vacations [57:04] but if you're doing that to escape a reality just know that it'll be there when you [57:11] get back and that goes for drugs the same thing there's stuff going on with people that [57:17] they don't deal with so they go and they turn to drugs and they turn to whatever right they turn to something to try to [57:24] escape the reality and that's where depression is and you mess around and you mess around and you can't keep up [57:30] right because you got to keep you got to keep up in yourself you got to keep doing something dude what do you think he's trying to do he's like man all right [57:36] let's go to china and eat roaches you know what i'm saying like like let's just give me so i just we need something more no that's not [57:42] crazy enough you can tell where the meetings was they're like no that's not going to cut it dude what japan got [57:48] give me a cat we can't do that on tv well we don't have to film it just let [57:53] me eat the cat you know what i'm saying like you know what i mean it's like like i i have to do something here you know what i'm saying let's see [57:59] whatever we got give strong drink unto him that is ready [58:04] to perish he's ready to pair he's ready to die that's why you gotta give him the strong drink his butt is ready to die [58:11] drink and drunk him up so he can live a little bit longer and whine unto those that be of heavy [58:17] hearts let him drink and forget his poverty and remember his misery no more right they wanted any people don't even [58:24] be poor you know what i'm saying but poor people they trying to forget that they poor and then other people who got money and [58:29] got resources they look at me i just want to forget hey i just want to forgive my misery [58:35] i want to forget the fact that this stuff i thought it was going to i sold myself out i did all this this weird stuff to get [58:40] to what i got and you know what it didn't make me as happy as i thought it was going to make me [58:46] now i just live i just gotta live with all the stuff that shame man because i did all this stuff i didn't do some unspeakable things to [58:52] get where i am you know what i'm saying just you know i'm saying turned on people did some [58:58] stuff i'm not proud of all this type of stuff i don't think politicians had that thought though no they do maybe like the average rich [59:04] person they do oh no they got it they in the same position your politicians be on drugs [59:11] your politicians be you know today they be sitting there chasing they darn hard chasing those stuff they got going on too [59:16] trying to tell you but now i will say there are a lot of people that don't have these feelings [59:25] but you know you have to understand all it is being a sinner don't mean that you got [59:30] to live a sad life now there's a lot of sinners that secretly live [59:35] very sad lives that's because they not live in reality you can be a sinner and accept your reality i'm going right to hell [59:43] but this is why i'm doing it and i'm about to live it up i'm not trying to fake the phone i know who i am and you [59:49] listen and then they're going to be cold stoned like just you know i'm saying just coast on centers then you got other people to be [59:56] like they sin and be like but but my heart is in the right place i'm just trying my best i mean i make [60:02] mistakes here and there but i'm still a good person them are the ones that's gonna suffer them are the ones that are gonna have [60:08] mental issues because you you're trying to keep two things true and it just doesn't work and [60:13] your body gonna reject that keep going watch this they ready to pair it open thy mouth for the dumb and the [60:19] cause of all the in the cause of all such as are appointed to destruction [60:25] open thy mouth judge righteously she's telling she's giving advice to a king right she's giving advice to a king [60:31] she's trying to tell you stay away from drank all right since you got this powerful position [60:37] when you see people that need your help don't be just standing there idly by open up your mouth for them you know i'm [60:43] saying help them out like no no don't do that to them cause you powerful when you say it people gonna listen [60:49] right keep going it's a woman watch this open my mouth and judge righteously and plead the cause of the poor and needy [60:56] who can find a virtuous woman look at this that's what i'm trying to get to and remember they going to tell you [61:02] bible say the lines you can't worry i would say one guy stay home take care of the kids [61:08] i don't know i can't listen no bible tell me that you know what you write i wouldn't listen no bible telling me that either [61:14] watch it the heart of uh who can find a virtuous woman watch this for her price is far [61:20] above ruby's look her price is far but she's expensive you know talk about cost [61:25] a lot that's the book told you cardi b right about that you know what i'm about she's right about that part she expensive let's see how [61:32] before cardi b get the heart of her husband does safely trust in her oh i got that card to be out of it there [61:38] you go she out of it there you go i don't know why beyonce got that that they done you know they [61:45] keep going can't trust her as far as you can darn throw her you know dumbbell so that he shall have no need of spoil [61:51] she will do him good and not evil in the days of her life that's right she sees wood and flats and works [61:56] willingly with her hands she does what now seeks wool [62:03] she sees wool and flats and works willingly with her hands what's wool in flats she's making [62:09] clothes yeah right that means she's seeking it though so that means she going out there [62:15] remember our people i would have sheep or goat you know i'm cutting it to get wool flax [62:21] is coming up out of the ground right so i mean i'm going out there i'm growing it and harvesting my flax that's how i'm [62:28] getting my materials and she works with what with her [62:34] she doing it keep going watch this she is like the merchant ships she's like a what [62:40] what's a merchant [ __ ] somebody um [62:45] like a hustler entrepreneur the book is telling you something this is what the one what they're [62:51] describing about this woman she go out there and she get her own wool yeah [62:56] you know shaving that thing and she out there she get her flats from that she's working with her hands [63:02] she's making her own clothes she's like a merchant [ __ ] what you what you need do you need a shirt you got some gucci [63:09] bags yeah i'm saying what you need shirt purse then i'll say what you need i got it you know what i'm saying [63:14] let's see what else she brings her food from afar so she [63:20] sold these she made some she sold it right then she went far away got some she [63:27] bought some food and she bringing it back to the crib right let's see she rises also while it is yet night and [63:34] she gives me to her household portion of her to her mates listen books say she rises why it was she just got done [63:42] working you understand she out here like yo what you need she got it okay from that i bought dinner [63:49] she brought back dinner right did the book say she cooked the dinner she rises also while this is yeah no no [63:56] hold on did the book say she cooked the dinner no no no book just say she got the food she got it brought it [64:03] in next thing you know she rises that mean she didn't cook nothing she got the food and went to [64:10] sleep and then woke up while it was yet what well there's a yet night and gives meat [64:16] to her household in the pool it was yet night in other words that's early in the morning [64:22] she woke up it's still dark outside you know what all right that food that i picked up last night boom give it me [64:28] to her what her household everybody now got even a portion to her maidens and in a portion to her to the people [64:35] that serve her right she provides for everybody [64:40] all right watch this she considers the field and buys it with the food hold on who are we talking about here we talking about the woman [64:46] that just stay in the house and gotta cook and clean don't get to see outside no she just got done she went out there [64:53] made her boom soda shirt okay did that another got the food got the okay brought it back [64:58] went to sleep woke up fed everybody back out on that field what do you think we need [65:06] that who made that decision her husband book saying this a virtuous woman give [65:12] me the no i don't know you got too many hoes in that field what you what you asking for this one over here [65:17] okay give me that one at the book ain't describing none of this stuff they'd be talking about keep going watch this [65:24] she considers a field and buys it with the fruit of her hand she plants a vineyard uh-huh she girds her loins with strength [65:30] and strength in her arms uh-huh she perceives that her merchandise is good look she know she's like listen i know what i'll be [65:36] selling this good top quality what up her candle goes not out by night she [65:42] lays her hands to the spindle and her hands hold the distaff okay she stretches out her hand to the poor yay she reaches forth her hands to [65:49] the needy okay she's not afraid of the snow for her household look champ she said what's she not afraid of [65:55] what of the snow if it gets the snow on yours i don't want to go outside she got work to do [66:01] she got stuff to say what you talking about it's a business woman why should i keep going [66:07] she makes herself coverings of tapestry no no you missed them keep going she's not afraid of snow for her [66:12] household for all her households are clothed with scarlet everybody got jackets [66:20] that stuff don't bother her get y'all butts out there let's go we got work to do watch it keep going she makes herself [66:25] coverings of tapestry her clothing is silk and purple uh-huh her husband is known in the gates when he sits among the elders of the [66:31] land what you mean you think a woman like this gonna have some nobody is a husband book say no husband known in the gates [66:39] yeah she got a husband of status with the elders of the land you think a woman like that what type of [66:44] what type of man you think a woman like this gonna get she don't get her a man to add to what she's doing you know you know i'm saying [66:51] virtual woman she ain't gonna get no longer sorry darn man just sitting there you'll get a man be like yeah no i'll [66:56] take care of everything else then don't even worry about it right let's see she makes fine linen and [67:01] sells it and delivers girdles onto the merchant strength and honor of her clothing and she shall rejoice in time to come [67:07] she opens her mouth with wisdom and in her tongue is the law of kindness she looks well to the ways of her [67:12] household and eats not the bread of idleness her children rise up and call her blessed her husband also and he praises [67:18] her many daughters have done virtuously but you excelled them all [67:23] favor is deceitful and beauty is vain but a woman that fears the lord she shall be praised [67:29] give her to the fruit of her hands and let her own works praise her in the gates i got that right that's the top of the [67:38] top of the woman right these people have you thinking oh the best woman you can be [67:43] just stay in the house take care of the kids right that's not the book that's what me you [67:50] could be is you get out there you take care of the kids and your butt get out there at work and your butt do everything else right [67:56] they don't want to hear that they don't want to hear that right they want one or the other [68:04] and really it's just the other you know they just want to get out there and work and you know if you even jumped up right [68:11] a lot of them just want to be taken care of and still be seen in the independent woman [68:17] yeah you can't really help both there ain't nothing wrong with being a woman that's taken care of ain't nothing wrong with it ain't going [68:23] wrong with you you just can't run out there i'm getting take care of is that nothing now you know man [68:29] shut your butt down like why is that even a bragging point you know they're like why would you think that's even something to brag about [68:34] stuff is backwards ain't nothing to brown need no man yes you do [68:39] it's fine if you can get by without one you know what i'm saying but no you know you got to do though [68:44] yo you don't need no man you don't need no daddy you only you need no man that's a problem to think that i'm not [68:52] saying you guys say you need a husband or you need that's fine you don't need no husband i'm with you on that like you don't need a husband [68:57] but you don't need no man oh no that's no that's a problem it's a bad mindset right just a bad [69:04] mindset book set it up that we you know send a man supposed to protect a woman whether it be the father whether it be [69:11] the brother whether it be the you know what i'm saying the the husband book set it up that way you're going to get to order the book you say something [69:17] stupid like that can't be no virtual man are you gonna fear god you go against the orders but [69:22] virtually a woman gotta fear god all right all right let's see if we can try to finish out at least one chapter at peter [69:29] i don't know what's wrong with y'all today this is the first peter chapter three i think we left off with verse three [69:35] verse two verse one hot tamale likewise he wives be in [69:43] subjection to your own husbands that if any obey not the word they also made without the word be won by the [69:49] conversation of the wives and he says that that way because a woman don't have no business teaching a [69:54] man the book so he's saying oh you know be in subjection to your own husband [70:00] that way if your husband don't got the word if he don't obey the word then he can look through your conduct [70:07] when you're in obedient obedience to the word and through that it'll give a window for him to be like [70:12] oh you know what i need to be obedient to the word too without you ever you know without the woman having to ever say the [70:18] word say a word to her you know what i'm saying because she ain't got no business teaching them i don't know what that'll really look like i think it's about like [70:24] a miracle you know what i'm saying like like if it was really yeah like in today's yeah [70:31] i don't think so in today's society i think what we would imagine is a toxic relationship right like this [70:39] relationship that's just it's problems and arguments and all this other stuff i don't think that's what this is talking about i think [70:45] i think paul addresses that right paul i think he addre first corinthians chapter [70:51] seven um give me verse uh [70:58] uh somebody got to help me out with a verse i want to say it's in the middle that probably got like 30 [71:04] maybe 37 verses in it so maybe it's about verse for 17 [71:11] what i'm looking for yeah thirteen thirteen [71:19] what's the books the woman which has a husband that'll go back before but to the rest be god not the lord if [71:26] any brother has a wife that believe not and she be pleased to dwell with him let him not put her away [71:31] and the woman which oh no he said the rest what but to the rest speak i not the lord [71:38] right so let's go back a little bit before that what verse [71:47] verse 10. all right so this is uh first corinthians chapter 7 verse 10. it's important to kind of pay attention to what he's [71:54] saying in this in this chapter and unto the married our command yet not i but the lord so he starts off [71:59] as saying i command but it really is not me that's commanding this god is commanding this right so what [72:06] he's about to say is a commandment of god right watch this let not the wife depart from her husband a wife cannot [72:13] depart from her husband he didn't say divorce he said depart in other words the wife cannot [72:20] leave the husband right watch this but and if she depart let her remain [72:27] unmarried right but he said this is still part of the commandment but if she does depart right [72:35] let her remain unmarried notice none of this does he say divorce [72:41] right so he's saying let the wife not depart in other words he's saying i'm [72:47] encouraging you not this is a commandment though it's not an encouragement like i said man he's look do everything [72:53] enough this is this is what he's saying god is commanding you to do everything to stay with your husband [72:59] right however if that danger absolutely ain't working out then remain unmarried in other words [73:06] never get divorced okay then watch this or be reconciled to her husband right or go [73:12] back to him in the state that y'all was in that's what it means when he said be reconciled and let not the husband put away his [73:18] wife right let not the husband send his wife out the door what else but to the rest speak i [73:26] not the lord so now he's saying but to everybody else he said to the rest to everybody else now i'm speaking this [73:33] ain't god commandment right because he started off by saying i'm commanding you but it's really not me commanding you it's god commanding [73:40] you now you're coming back he said okay i was talking to the married people now to everybody else i'm not speaking as a commandment this [73:47] is just me just talking to here's my advice right let's see but the rest speak i not the lord if any brother has a wife [73:54] that believes not and she be pleased to dwell with him let him not put her away so his advice is if you have a wife [74:02] and she is not you know what i'm saying obeying the most high god word and she don't want to be with you this [74:09] is the toxic relationship let her butt go right keep going [74:18] and the woman which has a husband that believes not and if he be pleased to dwell with her let her not leave him right watch this [74:27] for the unbelieving husband is sanctified by the wife the unbelieving wife is sanctified by [74:33] the husband mm-hmm else were your children unclean but now are they old [74:39] if the unbelieving depart let him depart a brother or sister is not under bondage in such cases [74:45] but god has called us to peace so that's what he's saying he's saying look best case scenario same [74:50] thing that peter was saying look by the conduct by your conduct maybe they'll be one over with the word [74:56] right however if they but want to leave let them go so that that kind of [75:03] addresses the toxic situation you know i'm saying this is a situation where it's just like now i'm saying i don't wanna [75:08] you ain't gotta sit there and beg and try to convince them to stay with you and all that stuff it does not say you can get a rematch [75:15] no no no no no just let them leave same same the commandment's still the same right let's go back let's make sure that [75:21] that's a good point i'll go back a lot of people try to do that the commandment is the commandment watch what the commandment says [75:29] i command yet not i but the lord let not the white wife depart from her husband but if she [75:35] depart let her remain unmarried or be reconciled to her husband and let not the husband put away [75:40] his wife that's a commandment you can nowhere it said in other words you cannot [75:47] divorce once you marry he follows that up with with a suggestion with his advice like listen [75:52] now if one of y'all believe the word and the other one don't believe the word and y'all ain't really getting along [75:57] with that i would advise that y'all stay together however if the unbelieving one just said you [76:03] know what i'm done with this and they want to leave i'm trying to keep that darn but let them darn lead right you know what [76:09] he's saying he said look my advice is y'all trying to figure it out because man you don't even know man you look that thing will work out y'all i'm [76:16] saying you don't even know most i gotta work on them through you but let me tell you something if they but just want to leave yeah i'm saying [76:21] they just if that's just what they want to do all right let that butt go you ain't got to be in bonnie's chat [76:27] cause he's trying to tell you you got to keep putting yourself to these dumb it's some it's some relationship them [76:33] things is rough people are hitting on each other and calling each other names people just don't feel good at all [76:41] you know what i'm saying and that's rough to try to put up people trying to tell you you got to keep putting up with that stuff man they both want to go that bad [76:48] and let their butt go you know i'm saying you got to keep going through that that darn rigmarole you know that thing crazy [76:54] all right that's why you said it's advice at that point he's just trying to like yo look i'm trying to you know i'm saying [76:59] trying to let you know there's a way out you know what i'm saying yeah if you need to you cannot remember you cannot remarry [77:07] right cannot remarry you know what i'm saying so it put you in the position you got to wait you got away [77:13] now we can get what the messiah said to back up the claim where is that [77:20] uh whoever married somebody who's unamerican [77:26] uh i think it's matthew seven right no that's not matthew said matthew matthew 5 by matthew 5 check about verse [77:33] 40. he's probably hired up in 40 40 probably [77:38] too low because you know people were like you know god want me to be happy [78:01] matthew chapter 5 verse 21 watch the book say y'all sure about tell us the same way [78:06] and different words same thing in different words you have said you have heard that it was said by them of all time thou shalt not kill or whoever [78:13] shall kill shall be where do i get this one it might be a [78:19] little higher than that shall not kill [78:31] i think it's somewhere else it was like when he was like uh when i was like when he was talking about moses putting [78:37] him putting away yeah try matthew 7. that was what i was gonna say originally but i was thinking maybe it was in the [78:42] rundown matthew 5. [78:48] matthew 7 maybe uh maybe at the beginning of matthew [78:55] oh yeah matthew's matching five it is matthew five one first uh 31 [79:03] 31 okay [79:11] matthew chapter 5 verse 31 watch this it has been said whosoever shall put away his wife let him give her a writing [79:18] of divorcement and i say unto you that whosoever shall put away his wife saving for the cause of fornication caused her to commit [79:24] adultery and whosoever shall marry her that is divorce commits adultery all right so it shows you there that [79:31] truly although you think you're divorced you're still married that way you sleeping with a married woman there [79:36] for is divorced or she's sleeping with or she has a married woman that's adultery i'm sorry and then she's [79:42] sleeping with a married uh she being married sleeping with a man although she thinks she's divorced it's really adulterous because she's [79:48] still married you know so it's the same thing as what paul just said the commandment was [79:53] that you know i'm saying you stay with him but if you let him go remain unmarried and a man shouldn't put [79:59] away his wife right so in other words you can't divorce all right ain't no there ain't no such thing as that [80:04] you know i'm saying for a merry person and that goes for whether you one is unbelieving and not you know i'm saying that commandment [80:11] applies to marriage then after that he says this is not a commandment this just me running my dark [80:17] mouth it's my advice to you you let them go if you need to you didn't say nothing about divorcing [80:23] or you can remarry or none of that that commandment still stands you cannot remarry [80:28] you know i'm saying i think that thing and he came back later and made sure it was clear this is me talking [80:34] so it's nothing paul's paul's advice is never going to supersede the commandment right you know it's just that's just what it is luke 18 [80:41] said it luke 16 18 said it better that's what i'm looking for what is it here whosoever put away his wife and marries another commits [80:47] adultery and whosoever marries her that is put away from her husband commits adultery [80:52] that's literally what we just read in another book yes this is like more clear because the other one is like you know well he said [81:00] you heard it you know i'm saying like this one with this one i don't think it's no wiggle room like none of them is wiggle room because it was like there's [81:05] no way this was like okay yeah i'm saying you really can't do it yeah buddy [81:11] all right let's go back to first peter chapter three [81:20] while they behold your chase conversation coped with fear whose adorning let it not be that [81:26] outward adorning of the air and wearing plating the hair [81:31] and the wearing of gold and what's playing in the hair apparels braids raise right they're talking this [81:37] is all talking to a woman right he's like you know what i'm saying don't let it be young sam when he when you got that outward adorning [81:43] don't let it be because you braided your hair what else uh and wearing of gold [81:50] or uh putting on of apparel but let it be the hidden man let it be the hidden man [81:56] of the heart in that which is not corruptable even the ornament of a meek and quiet spirit [82:01] which is the sight of god which is which in which is in the sight of god of great [82:07] price right so what what it's telling us there is you know what i'm saying you see women right now it's like they they [82:12] try to do everything to get their body shots and do all this other weird stuff because they want a physical [82:17] appearance right part of that physical appearance was you know i'm saying braids and and [82:22] wearing jewelry and and uh wearing the fanciest clothes and all that stuff [82:28] right and he's like man don't let your adorning be because of that right how about you know that my arms [82:33] are you know we ain't doing no braids you know i'm saying no jewelry none of that you know what i'm saying because we want to we want to try to [82:40] align ourselves exactly with what the books say like the book is telling us very clearly now what does this mean is this saying [82:45] it's a sin no we know i'm saying we just read off the sin from from yahweh sure [82:50] right i'm not trying to say that a person got brazen in here they going to hell right that's that's not beyond i ain't [82:56] saying you not you know i'm saying i'm just saying that i'm not telling you that because that's not what the books [83:01] say i can only go as far as the book said from there as far as my understanding of the book most like god [83:07] can judge from there i leave that for him you know i ain't about to judge in his place that won't make no sense [83:12] what i'm gonna do is i'm gonna judge what he commanded right the man gave us is right here he's [83:20] giving us commentary telling us you know i'm saying this is what's going on it's that another from the apostle peter right but it's [83:26] never put forth as a sin that will prevent you to go prevent you from getting into the kingdom right we got places where we can [83:33] read those sins right we read one mark chapter seven right uh we can go to the last [83:39] galatians uh chapter five verse starting at about verse 19 all right or we can go to uh uh [83:46] ephesians chapter five started at about verse with the three something like that right [83:52] and it'll give us the sins right this is this is what you you know i'm saying can't do and this is [83:57] what you can't do first corinthians 6 9. first corinthians 6 9 is another one [84:02] matter of fact first grant is six nights of what i'm thinking about not ephesians i don't remember [84:08] yeah not ephesians yeah not ephesians it's first first corinthians six nine right so you look at those places you [84:15] know i'm saying that to tell you what the sins are it tells you very clearly a person doing these things are defiled [84:21] or a person doing these things will not enter into the kingdom that's very clear right the bible is very clear [84:27] this these are the things that will prevent you from entering into the kingdom those are the things that we're saying [84:33] for the purpose of entering into the kingdom our sins these other things are are are um [84:39] are that's god's order he's putting forth his order how he wants things to be right and we would be whipped up to fall [84:47] into it because what it does is it protects us from the sins right because it's just so it's just one [84:52] step it's like okay i'm wearing braids and i got jewelry on next thing i know i'm adorning myself [84:57] people have an outwards appearance and now i'm being tempted right [85:03] it's certain girls right banging our day right certain girls that carry their self a certain way did we mess with them you carry us [85:12] listen in certain girls they carry themselves a certain way i ain't wasting my darn time you know [85:17] there we be thinner [ __ ] i'm saying she ain't gonna get cause she ain't gonna give me what i'm looking for [85:24] that's too much dark you know like wasting my darn time we don't go with the one what which ones [85:30] we go for like oh man shalonda you know then you know that [ __ ] with nica yeah i'm saying she got [85:37] the purple and the red brace [85:48] i remember i remember a girl named made me young alright i'll probably say [85:55] age maybe the guy hold you four now all right it's a kai maybe five you know what i'm saying i [86:01] used to play outside she had these braids you know i was in preschool and meeting with them she [86:06] always had the darn braids so we thought you know what i'm saying it's always you know going together you know with my girlfriend you know look look [86:13] four or five years just fast right yeah my girlfriend we holding doing all this stuff what you looking at boy [86:18] i beat your darn butt he want a girlfriend so bad i'll beat your darn butt right you know what i'm saying like you [86:24] know they talk to my girlfriend you know so we we go and you know what i'm saying and then one day she came [86:30] and her hair wasn't done you know because you she a black girl you know then you gotta take them out sometime [86:36] you know but i ain't never seen her without braids like all this time we lived in the same neighborhood all this time she always had her hair done always her mama [86:43] always got her stuff done and it always looked nice as far as i can remember you know i'm saying then one day she came running up to me [86:51] ugly but the darn hair just darn messed up fresh out crinkled up and all this stuff [86:57] i saw that stuff i was like i told her fly out oh i don't like you no more [87:04] let me tell you something to this day that gray never spoke to me again hey a little girl be remembering this [87:10] stuff oh hopefully i helped her though i probably heard though y'all said she [87:16] probably ain't never taking out her brains again you know what i'm saying but you look at it it's like that's the stuff that we [87:22] like we hebrews it's the same thing back then that's what they look like he knew peter knew it like i don't know [87:29] what they like now listen we know they like little beyonce a little individual you know dude [87:35] just don't even do it you thick one's starting to look real nice now too yeah you got that big old thing when [87:41] you're on there and come on down like that no i got the fresh you know say because we used to get like the fresh twists you could see your scalp think would be all [87:47] fresh all right let me see it i'm like oh there's some nice bread oh no i was just the home girl you know she didn't post a beer because she do [87:53] hair i was looking at that i was in their memory i'm like damn dark what's that called was it the [88:02] they're appreciating the artwork of it you know i'm looking like man they think but that's what it's talking about [88:08] that's what it's talking about you know what i'm saying you look at it and it's you know it's the the overall [88:13] the overall thing because it don't just stop at brady's right you know it's just really don't put yourself in [88:19] the position where you doing you going out of your way to do the stylish things to get that outward attention you know i'm [88:25] saying he's telling you that's to get you in trouble it's just going to get you in trouble why should i keep [88:30] going but let it be the hidden man of the heart and that which is not corruptable [88:36] even the ornament of a meek and quiet spirit which is in the sight of god a great price when you say ornament or he kind of [88:43] playing back on the jewelry so he said don't wear jewelry but he said in other words use the jewelry of a meek and quiet [88:50] spirit right so he said let people see the stuff that they can't see you know i'm saying you want somebody [88:56] get them by getting them to see the stuff that they can't see and that's that's real like people don't [89:02] be paying attention that type of stuff in the book but that's real life relationship advice [89:08] like i'm telling you from experience if you carry yourself in a certain way these [89:13] knuckleheads will not give you any problems like they're not [89:18] even gonna come your way you know what i'm saying and when they do come your way [89:24] they gonna come correct because they already know they looking like oh i can't just walk up to you and just say [89:29] anything yeah i can't just do it he's long enough to wear you know what i'm saying you exhausted you know that they gonna [89:35] try you know they're gonna be like no no sweetheart uh i was wondering you know this same dude [89:40] hey baby hey baby hey hey baby he gonna see this one i think i can get it though sweetheart [89:47] i just wonder if i could take you out on to have a meal know have a meal to eat do you mind [89:54] no i'll pay right go through that round about three times he figured out ain't nothing happening [90:02] but i didn't like you anyway you're gonna do the same thing i did to the girl you know i ain't like you anyway keep going ain't [90:08] got time cause i we don't know what we're here for y'all too why are you gonna try to be couldn't [90:14] or go back up a couple verses watch this who's adorning letters now go back up [90:21] versus hold your chair three maybe verse three woes adorning let it not be there's two there [90:27] while they behold your chase conversation coupled with fear while they do what behold your chase [90:34] conversation comes what is chase conversation uh strict um strict conduct [90:41] principle you behave incorrectly right so there's two options the man can [90:47] get frustrated and be like man you get one i don't like you anyway or the other one he look at it [90:52] and you teach him something without opening the door [90:57] he sit there and look at you and be like man i ain't never met no girl like that it was the ones where it's like [91:05] you weren't even trying to get at him like that that's a fact it was like i like hanging out with you sure that's so fast we was just [91:13] chilling watching tv you carry yourself way different from the girls that you don't tend to get down you know what i'm talking about [91:18] like the ones that i want to get down i mean i'm saying like them you're like i i know what it takes to be like oh now [91:26] you the homie you know i'm saying it's like you're cool now how do i make that girl feel she feel like you know i'm saying [91:32] like oh you guys don't even want me am i pretty but that's just because they don't have people when they like to [91:38] teach them like the reason it ain't got nothing to do with you pretty or not the reason this is happening is because [91:45] you not putting off the energy that's easy to them they know if they come they come your [91:51] way they gotta switch up the whole game plan they gotta rethink everything this line ain't gonna work they got a [91:57] mold right they got a mold that women like being told this so i'm gonna tell them this women like when i do this [92:04] well i'm gonna tell them this they got that mold they ready they already positioned for it they got their lines [92:10] right they confident in it they see something else like i got to figure out a whole new [92:15] puzzle piece to crack that one i don't have time for that and even if i do i'ma try it and if the girl is legit [92:22] and really has chase conversation chase behavior right correct behavior [92:27] right then it still ain't gonna work and he eventually is either gonna be frustrated [92:32] or he gonna learn a better way through that situation that's all it is i would tell all my own [92:38] girls like i get it i understand i know you lonely and you want this and this doesn't i get it i understand [92:44] don't waste your time set your standard you know what you want you're not being [92:49] unreasonable don't let nobody tell you that you being unreasonable stop stop carrying yourself you know in [92:56] a way that you know trying to be like these other girls these other girls they getting what they get i promise you [93:01] like i don't like i don't know i mean i gotta take you through it like sure she she flies she's not uh huh [93:07] yeah okay go talk about our last seven relationships let's just go talk about it all these [93:14] women out here going through they're going through the the these women are to the point [93:19] where they say i'm gonna be like the man i'm gonna do with the man you think they like that they sick they out there [93:28] sick doing drugs doing everything to try to get to the next day [93:34] stuff ain't cool they make it cool and so guess what that's the cycle they make it cool they sitting there uh uh i do [93:40] this and get with the gossip shark you know they look at that like goddard you know i know exactly what to do [93:47] now the game has changed it seems like now just now you just need a little bit more money you know just seem like just a bunch of [93:53] money involved now we had to play a different game [94:02] you [94:11] [Laughter] [94:17] day like they like with all the stuff they could do now they like way more prettier oh yeah all of them all of them look the [94:24] same yeah they got that pretty personality too oh man yeah you can't do nothing with it [94:30] you can't do nothing with a ugly girl that can be pretty what you gonna do [94:36] my goodness great stock market all the way off i don't know how y'all you're surviving [94:42] nowadays [94:57] i'll be out here like whoa [95:02] i'll tell y'all what y'all gotta do what you gotta do get you a little microfiber rag [95:07] microfiber you know what i'm saying put a little bit of ain't the trick oil rubbing down a little bit of oil you [95:13] know what i'm saying you just walk up to your point you know what's in it rub all that stuff off their faces like what you look like [95:19] now they're gonna melt it you know what you look like darn that [95:25] vampire yeah i'm trying to tell you the only way you can equal it out you know they remind them who they are [95:30] this is you yeah i'm there now you where you go with me [Laughter] [95:36] you ain't got no other shot you know the other that be a baller you know buy some of that intention man that [95:41] thing goodness grace but i gotta keep that up so now i'm not saying you guys nah man it's it's just the game change [95:48] now it's what it seemed like the game change used to be you know i'm saying it used to be you know i'm saying that that you know so [95:53] now you gotta have to change [96:07] that's what women have to do you know like they gotta they gotta have to chase behavior and wait until until they find a man [96:13] that's just mature and not in that lifestyle and that's ready to to kind of go through the you know the true courting [96:19] process with honesty you know what i'm saying and when that happened then she'll find what she need but that takes a lot of [96:24] patience so now just switch it's like now that the men you know i'm saying you either go spend the money and play them games with them or [96:31] you just gotta sit back and just be like oh now i'm not even interested in this this whole scene that you got going i'm not even interested in that [96:37] and then let her come to you and be like man okay i'm tired of this lifestyle i hadn't lived a lot you know my body count way up here but [96:43] will you take me you know you just gotta be like girls yeah one more aggressive now yeah you know you just gotta you gotta [96:50] hit them with the you say how many now we're good gracious you know we'll make [96:56] it work you know say you done you sho good gracious we'll make it work you [97:02] know what i'm saying are you happy get out you got you got to be honest though the women had to do the same [97:08] thing a generation ago yeah you're right though you know what i'm saying like it ain't nothing but this stuff is just flipping around yeah you know if they [97:14] just flipped around that's all and so they had to they had to put up the same thing you understand like the wow that young's [97:20] in like that that we're getting away with me and getting away with in general you know what i'm saying not speaking especially you know [97:25] i'm just saying in general you know then a lot of people were getting away with a lot of stuff on the male side [97:31] you know what i'm saying so it's like you know then a woman a woman got to put up with that and she got you know i'm saying just like okay you know everybody you gotta you gotta [97:37] figure it out you know you just gotta figure it out at the end of the day everybody is redeemable you know i'm [97:43] saying everybody's redeemable everybody everybody can get a chance you can make anything work you know what i'm saying anything you can make it work [97:49] you just got to make sure the person that you with is willing to make it work i look back and all the girls i thought [97:55] was wild you know what i'm saying when i look back for a man they trust they definitely [98:01] would have been what they needed to be oh yeah you just gotta you gotta show yourself a man you can't like like peter just told us don't give your [98:08] strength to the woman just don't give it to the woman you know what i'm saying what do you mean by that is just [98:13] don't be sitting there don't be sitting there folding like remain the perk like you got to be what she need right she [98:19] going to be what you need too but you got to be what she need and you got to do it first or you got to step out first just be like man that's what [98:26] it is you can't play them games told my wife i [98:32] said i don't beat anybody no bossy on there but no like don't know no buckley's i just i just got to put it out there i just [98:38] gotta look i'ma lay it out there i got a plan you can trust what i got going on and i ain't gonna never stop proving [98:45] that to her she might not forget she became listen my wife forget every darn date you know [98:50] what i'm saying every day she be looking like i don't know if you know what you doing i got a project i do trips every day like oh [98:56] i made that happen look at that she was like oh i love you babe next day i don't know [99:03] ah came out with that one oh there's that nut get out what it did these women gotta know they gotta be [99:09] able sometimes they ain't even got a c division they just got to see you y'all say you got the vision they they [99:16] may not be interested you might women are different everybody's different right you might have a woman that i love i want to know the vision i [99:21] want to know where you're going i want to be able to see it i want to be able you know i'm saying so you explain it to her look baby this is [99:27] where we gonna go right this is what i see you know i'm saying whether it's a business or [99:32] whether there's something simple like man we just gonna get a nice you know nine to five job just that another we don't have this house or [99:38] whatever you do it or you stay at home you want to do or you like doing that okay i'm gonna pay for you to go to this or [99:44] whatever or we're gonna work together we're gonna save up we'll split it and then whatever the plan is just help [99:50] her see it even if that plan is baby you are you [99:55] you know you gonna be a ceo one day and you know i can clean a darn house baby even if that's [100:01] it right i'm dead serious though even if that's the case just make her see the vision and make [100:06] sure that you owning it make sure that you own it right it's like even a sheet of bread winner and [100:11] all that make sure that you as a man are owning it and saying look i'mma guide you through this whole [100:17] process right and if you ain't got that type of wisdom for your woman in the way that she needs [100:23] then that might not be the woman because even if you think oh she don't require that at me and it's that another [100:30] it's dangerous because eventually she don't need them you're gonna need [100:35] some type of guidance some type of leadership and if you can't provide that that's gonna be an unorthodox relationship [100:41] and i would say you taking a risk because it's outside the order of the book you go find you something that you can [100:47] you can you can contribute to in a way that you're a leader you know i'm saying if you could do that man i mean and you you prove yourself to eat [100:53] women many women that they do whatever you need it's their name nature absolutely do whatever you and they do it with gladness you know [101:00] i'm saying these these women that feel scorned and all this stuff all of a sudden i don't need no man it's that another come from a couple things [101:07] one of the things is they were probably raised this way right could be some other things too [101:12] could be some bad experiences and all that playing into it too no matter what it is when you come [101:18] through and you break down them barriers and sometimes you got to work especially for our black women [101:23] right because our black women don't have an experience like these other women these other women got hit and stuff you [101:28] think you you think you're getting a prize you're going to you're going you got a whole different stuff that you gotta deal with these other women trust [101:35] me when i tell you right the other woman you gotta deal with some stuff you think it's easier it might be easier for the public eye [101:40] and easy behind closed door you tricking your darn self right at the end of the day though [101:46] everybody got to get what they what works for them you know what i'm saying like the formula of this woman that's not black might work better for [101:53] your personality get what you can handle right but when you look at the black women just know that you might have to work [102:00] through some stuff up front but man you proved you break down them [102:05] barriers you do what you got man you ain't gonna never have nobody fighting for you like that because it's in them [102:11] they just need that direction right let's see what we got you know so [102:18] let's jump back back down we is in first peter chapter three i'm gonna try to finish off this verse for after this manner in the old time [102:24] the holy women also who trusted in god adorned themselves being in subjection unto their own husbands [102:30] even as sarah obeyed abraham calling him lord whose daughters you are as long as you do well and are not afraid with any [102:36] amazing likewise your husbands dwell with them according to knowledge giving honor to [102:41] the white as unto the wicked vessel as on to what the weaker vessel people take that disrespect [102:48] he's saying that disrespects the weaker vessel what does that mean [102:54] you can look at nature and tell she's a weaker vessel right we could just mean she's dealing [102:59] with more if i walk in like if i just walk into the building right we have to race [103:05] right you walk in all you got your gym shorts t-shirt you know i'm just nice shoes right i [103:12] walk in and i gotta carry on my back a bag you know i got weights on my darn ankles [103:18] you know i'm saying and my wrists you know i mean my hands are tied behind my back [103:23] right you might look at me and be like oh i'm still cuz when we running i'm keeping up with you [103:30] you might look at me and who's stronger right but at the end of the day if you [103:37] win the race who won the race [103:45] right so it's like when the bible is saying weaker vessel is not necessarily saying in [103:51] terms of strength or muscles or anything like that it's saying the one that's not gonna it's the vessel that's not gonna be able [103:58] to get there when it's talking about vessel you think about a shift it's a ship that's not gonna be able to get there fact shifts that's carrying [104:04] more weight it's not going to get there in the same way it's going to get there slower and let me tell you women carry literally [104:10] more weight right they got to deal with every month just based off of the chance [104:15] that they might want to have a baby you know then they gotta deal with a menstrual cycle [104:21] that's just one example of the many things that women have that men ain't burdened with and there's many [104:27] of them right all the way from physical things to mental things to everything that women have to deal with they have a natural [104:34] inclination to deal with more things than we do you got a baby [104:39] that's tied to them right baby come out baby still tied together they nurse [104:45] right then they got this natural sense to deal with this baby differently right they gotta nurture and handle the baby [104:51] because there's a different level of connection there the baby was like inside of him this whole time and then [104:56] after that the baby was like right next to him the whole time right then after that it's like okay well i have to kind of maintain this nurturing [105:02] relationship right so we we look at it it's like that's a lot to deal with [105:08] to then expect to like like for god to make a woman fit to handle that like he has to make a you [105:16] know a different set of of uh you know they frequency got to be a little different you know like they said he's got to be there to [105:21] handle that you're saying got to be a little different you may not be built the same way a man can win man go out there and just knock [105:28] somebody darn head off at some food you know what i'm saying like i'm about to go shoot this animal in the darknet [105:34] you know that might not mean nothing but her her sister's got to be a little different not saying she can't do that [105:39] but just saying if she can accomplish what the man accomplished just guarantee she she carrying more [105:44] when she do it ain't a woman can't do what a man do quite the opposite [105:49] i believe a woman could do just about everything a man do right that don't take away the fact that [105:54] we are very different creatures and if a woman can't accomplish those [106:00] things she deserved more credit because she did it as the weaker vessel right she did it with disadvantages in [106:07] the you know in the sense that we're speaking up now it's not truly a disadvantage it's really an advantage right because she does more than what a [106:13] man does there's things that women if you look just physically [106:18] in general women can do everything that a man does now if you flip it around there's many [106:25] things that men can't do that women do many things very long lists those are [106:31] things that physically we cannot do and we never will be able to do thank you [106:38] no it's all related to that it's all related to having a baby that's [106:44] a glory that they don't make it less valuable though that's what it is i mean you gotta think about that right you gotta think about [106:50] that it's like you know i'm saying like you let's say ben is the greatest thing in the world all right you came from a woman [106:58] i got that you know what i'm saying like what you talking about how you get here woman oh okay shut your mouth [107:05] all right keep going yo mama you know your mama nursed your [107:11] butt to get you to this point you know like we kind of we gotta like downplay that but it's like no [107:17] but you know you understand like the root like you always have to get to a root of an issue [107:24] you know what i'm saying like you can't just pop up and be like oh no i'm the man i'm the greatest man ever [107:29] no you got to acknowledge okay you greatest man ever man you could rave about mom [107:35] all right apostle's there too but man you came from that darn mama all right let's see [107:44] and as being heirs together of the grace of life that your prayers be not hindered finally be all of one mind having [107:50] compassion of one of another love as brethren be pitiful be courteous not rendering evil for evil or [107:58] railing for railing but contra wise blessing knowing that ye are there there unto called that ye [108:03] should inherit a blessing for he that will love life and seek good days let him refrain his tongue from evil [108:09] and his lips that they speak no god let him eschew evil and do good let him seek peace and ensure it for the [108:15] eyes of the lord are over the righteous and the ears are in his ears are open unto their prayers but the face [108:20] of the lord is against them that do evil and who is he that will harm you if you [108:26] be followers of that which is good but and if you suffer for righteousness sake [108:32] you said he came back he was like man who gonna who gonna mess with you if you're doing the right thing [108:37] christian might stop reading there like oh you're doing the right thing nothing listen you come back and you say what [108:42] but if you suffer for righteousness happy are ye right he come back and he cleared up like okay [108:49] we're gonna do something to you and you righteous now let me let me tell you though if it do happen [108:55] y'all be happy right and he's speaking we talk about last week he's speaking from experience [109:00] right keep going and be not afraid of their terror neither be troubled sanctify the lord god in your hearts and [109:06] be ready always to give an answer to every man that asks you of a reason of the hope that is in you with meekness [109:11] and fear all right we to we ought to always have had that answer he thought he said be ready always [109:17] keep trying to tell you man people going to ask you like man why are you he he painting the picture man like listen you righteous ain't nobody gonna do that [109:24] to you however there's gonna be some people that might do something to you when they do it you should be happy when you suffer [109:31] so now when you suffer how you think those people gonna react they'd be like i just did you out online [109:36] you still i'm sorry other people gonna be looking like man you just did you out of line you still like maintain you know i'm saying yo yo your [109:43] behavior what's the next question they gonna be like [109:49] what like what makes you like why do you you know i'm saying like why do you stick with it like that even through all [109:54] this adversity he said be ready make sure you got an answer for him right keep going [109:59] having a good conscience that whereas they speak evil of you as evildoers that they may be ashamed [110:05] that falsely accuse you you're a good conversation in the messiah your good behavior right keep going for [110:10] it is better if the if the will of god be so that you suffer for well doing than for evil doing [110:16] that's right watch this for the messiah also has once suffered for sins the just for the unjust that he might [110:21] bring us to god being put to death in the flesh but quickened by the spirit by which also he [110:26] went and preached into the spirits in prison where some time were disobedient when once the long suffering of god [110:32] waited in the days of noah while the ark was preparing wherein few that is eight souls were [110:38] saved by water the like figure where unto even baptism does also now save us that's right [110:44] not the putting of way of the filth of the flesh but the answer of a good conscience toward god by the resurrection of [110:50] yahshua the messiah who has gone into heaven and is on the right hand of the [110:55] right hand of god angels and authorities and powers being made subject unto him [111:01] that's in the chapter all we're gonna end right there any questions [111:08] all right well let's pray out what questions you got